Posted on 26 March 2010 by admin
“If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they’re yours; if they don’t they never were.” – Richard Bach
As cliché as this sounds, the older I get the more I believe. I enjoy hearing all sorts of dating stories from people; especially the ones about men afraid to commit. Over and over again I hear of women who are head over heels over a guy, but just can’t get him to see their future together. And finally, of course, she reaches her breaking point and will no longer accept how the relationship is going. She then decides to set him “free” which isn’t a bad thing because dealing with an unknowing situation can be unhealthy.
I don’t know if we set off some type of woman chemical element when we are officially over it, but some of the men finally end up getting it. They realize how much of a great person she is and now want to give the relationship a try. But who knows, by then YOU might have moved on and its to late for him! I’m not saying all will come back. The ones that don’t, you probably wouldn’t want to be with them anyways, because they clearly didn’t want to go down the same road you did.
So if you really do like someone who waffles back and forth, maybe its time to just set them free. If they come back, that’s a good thing. If they don’t, that’s also a good thing because you know where they stood in the relationship. And maybe there’s someone better for you out there. =)
Posted on 09 March 2010 by admin
Single_Girl_Dating_Tip #8
- Build alot of enjoyable “first time” experiences for the both of you. It’ll make it hard for HIM to forget about you.
Women are always wondering what it is they need to do to keep a man. I’m sure no one has the definite answer because every man is different. We entertain ideas such as knowing how to cook for him to even being a strong independent woman. I personally feel that a good way to build a strong relationship with someone is creating “first time” enjoyable life experiences with each other. Do things that will make it impossible for HIM to forget about you should HE unfortunately move on.
Posted on 11 September 2008 by Single In Atlanta
Manipulative Games Good Advice
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Don’t return his calls and he will want you more
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Don’t make a man the center of your life. Return his calls but don’t drop everything for him.
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Be sexy, dress sexy, do everything he wants in bed.
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Dress in a way that makes you feel good, and don’t have sex until you are ready.
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Hide your real feelings, reamin cool and aloof. Don’t be eager in any way.
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Hold back from sharing all your feelings right away. Be careful not to rush things. Let the flower unfold one petal at time.
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Don’t call a man or Seem too interested.
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It is fine to call a man, but don’t expect him to have a lot to say, and if he does be pleasantly surprised. And don’t ask a lot of questions. Instead, share your thoughts and feelings.
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Date around to make him jealous.
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By dating around, but not sleeping around, it will free you from being too needy for his attention.
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Don’t be too available; say you are too busy sometimes.
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Make sure that you are not waiting for his call. Keep busy in your life so you are not too needy.
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Dress, speak, smile, flirt in a manner to seduce a man.
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Be careful to not pursue a man more than he is pursuing you. It is his job to seduce you; it is your job to attract his interest. A woman can easily seduce a man, but rarely will he commit.
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Mars and Venus Starting Over- John Gray, PhD
Cheers!
