What does a MAN consider “Wifey Material”

wifey material

My friend Anitra Favors recently posted a facebook status and received an overwhelming
response to the question…”What is Wifey Material”..
Here we go!!! Single Ladies, take note.. looks like men don’t want to much
but a cool girl that at least has a car…lol.

Anitra Favors FB Fellas: I had a weird conversation this morning and so I figured
I would ask the wonderful men I have as friends: What makes a woman “wife material”?

Anitra Favors

Anitra Favors

Ladies listen up! Don’t worry fellas we are going to flip this question too.

5 hours ago
Carolyn Vining

Carolyn Vining

I think also Men may have some universal points on what they look for – but it also depends on their upbringing and what ever baggage their dealing with too…ya’ll got bags just like us!

4 hours ago
Corey L White

Corey L White

If a woman can respect a man in his presence, yet even more so while not… she gives him undying support & she can communicate @ all times..even if the situation is something that she feels she cant discuss with anyone. The last is big because women shut down & leave men out, even as we try to understand & be there for them during their trying …Read More

4 hours ago
Daryl Nasir Handcock

Daryl Nasir Handcock

I think what makes a woman wife material is relevant to who you ask but I think generally a woman who is or has the most potential to be what that man is looking for and dreamed of.

4 hours ago
Michael Richardson

Michael Richardson

to answer ya second question. For me its a standard and a woman tends to get put in a category based on our interaction. a category of yeah i can take her home to mom or a category of yea i can take her home tonight lol

4 hours ago
Carolyn Vining

Carolyn Vining

I am reading a book now by a man that says the 3 things a man needs in order not to stray are 1) RESPECT 2) to feel needed by his woman 3) to feel fulfilled (sexually) and otherwise….is this book right?

4 hours ago
Anitra Favors

Anitra Favors

funny though but know one really mention the looks

4 hours ago
Carolyn Vining

Carolyn Vining

Yeah but we know LOOKs only attract but definately won’t keep him around…

4 hours ago
Corey L White

Corey L White

Who wins the dinner & limo ride????????????????

4 hours ago
D'Angelo Wash

D’Angelo Wash

most men have a present notion of how we won… Read More

4 hours ago
Carolyn Vining

Carolyn Vining

You see the finest sistas single….

4 hours ago
Anitra Favors

Anitra Favors

Corey so far D’Angelo Wash is winning but we are not done yet! LOL

4 hours ago
Holyfield

Holyfield

Sneed & Avery sum it up pretty well to me. . I wont go all into what a “WIFE” & her characteristics are to me but I will say I do think that your upbringing and lifes experiences has alot to do with what woman you choose or chooses you. . .

4 hours ago
Jarrod King

Jarrod King

guys keep the woman that gives them the least amount of headache.

4 hours ago
Anitra Favors

Anitra Favors

Short and sweet as always Mr. King.

4 hours ago
Carolyn Vining

Carolyn Vining

LOL funny you say that Jarrod because i live with my boyfriend now and he appears to be the happiest when i take Chris Rocks advice to Feed him ,you know, and kinda just keep things simple with a deep intellectual convo every now and than…

4 hours ago
Corey L White

Corey L White

Not the woman like my mom…even worse for women man like my father. Understand people your mother or father’s love is undying, unconditional someone you meet their love isnt. This is why so many fail in love, they set their standards to high asking for someone like their mother or father.

4 hours ago
Brian Harris

Brian Harris

Do you have an hour! :) Really this can be a short list or many things for each individual depending on where they are in life. Can trust and respect her along with what she believes in? Habits, how are they to you? Will all of this allow you to really love her and who she is not what she does or can do.? Looks come and go like money, it can be … Read More

4 hours ago
D'Angelo Wash

D’Angelo Wash

growng up i use to love spicey women wth a lil attitude. They were a challenge for me….and most where just talk…but as I grow, I am less and less attracted to that type….I love them independent and when we are together, its beautiful…has her own definition and not defined by me. AT this age, its hard to change anyone…so its harder to … Read More

4 hours ago
Carolyn Vining

Carolyn Vining

Thanks Jamaal – KNOW YOUR WORTH

4 hours ago
Ericka Hughes

Ericka Hughes

LOL….I just read Carolyn’s posting and thought about reposting this myself!

4 hours ago
Carolyn Vining

Carolyn Vining

you should! insight into the mind of the other sex “priceless”

4 hours ago
Herndon Sterling Bizzy

Herndon Sterling Bizzy

MY WIFE OF 9 YEARS TO ME HAS IT ALL! SHE’S STRONG WILLED,HARDWORKING,A GREATCOOK,GREATLOVER,GODFEARING,SUBMISIVE,OVER THE YEARS LEARNING TO SPEAK SLOWER AND HEAR THINGS THOUGH,GREAT MOM AND TEACHER,THE LOVING IS OFF THE CHAIN,GREAT SUPPORTER,THICK SKIN,AND ANYTHING THATS UNDERDEVELOPED SHE PRAY TO GET BETTER!! SHE’S NOT PERFECT BUT SHE’S MY BABY!!!

4 hours ago
Anitra Favors

Anitra Favors

We all have an ideal of who we would like but sometime when we get what we ask for we realize we don’t really want it. Me personally I think you can build a happy life with anyone as long as the 2 of you choose to build it together. My grandmother once told me “sometimes it’s just about staying committed to the commitment”. I feel that when you find someone that you work well with and the 2 of you work together for the good of each other that’s when u got something awesome!

4 hours ago
Herndon Sterling Bizzy

Herndon Sterling Bizzy

AND I TRUST HER WITH MY LIFE!! SHE’S BATTLE TESTED WE’VE BEEN TOGETHER SINCE HIGHSCHOOL A TOTAL OF 13 YEARS AND WHAT EVER THE ENEMY COULD THROW AT US HE HAVE AND I THREW SOME THINGS TOO BUT SHE LOVES ME UNCONDITIONALY WHAT GOD FEARING MAN WON’T HONOR THAT!! A KING KNOWS HIS QUEEN FROM DAY ONE!!

4 hours ago
Carolyn Vining

Carolyn Vining

Herndon your awesome! but why when i re-posted this question someone just replied with Obedience as a top quality?

4 hours ago
Anitra Favors

Anitra Favors

LOL, I have to come read your replies ASAP!

4 hours ago
Marcus Goggins

Marcus Goggins

companionship, overall compatibility without the perks of the material benefits. unforgiving love. yeah, i would marry a women like that.

3 hours ago
Ericka Hughes

Ericka Hughes

@Carolyn and I wanna windmill on him!

3 hours ago
Jarrod King

Jarrod King

men like simple. We say he I’m going to the store U need anything. U say NO. We sont bring you anything. real simple. But women want to say no and u somehow miraculously figure out that when she was 6 she used to like twinkies because her grandfather worked at the factory and show up with a box when u come home…. Ha HA HAHAHA

3 hours ago
Mind Blowin

Mind Blowin

Ok i would have to say that wifey material is different for each individual woman and it is more about complimenting qualities then it is how you are as a person in whole.. for every man this is going to be a different answer maybe the stereotypical answers will be the same but the real deep down answer depends on the type of man you are asking. … Read More

3 hours ago
Rick Broome

Rick Broome

It has got to be a true friendship, unconditional love (even when we mess up completely), NO JEALOUSY, mutual trust and a woman that has your back no matter what. And Herndon, you said it best, “a king knows his queen from day one”!

3 hours ago
Carolyn Vining

Carolyn Vining

Ericka- you made me laugh so hard my side hurt! post that comment on mine…ROTFL!

3 hours ago
Anitra Favors

Anitra Favors

Mind Blowin Mike indeed – Luv when u said: “but i do believe it is different for every man so you cant make yourself wifey material you just have to find the man that you are already wifey material for.”

3 hours ago
Broadus Butler

Broadus Butler

The way she carries herself in and out of public, how she handles her business, and the way she makes her standards slightly higher than any other woman out here. A woman like this makes a potential suitor have to think about what he’s going to say before he even approaches her! When I think of ‘wifey-material’ I think of YOU miss Favors!!! ;-)

3 hours ago
Carolyn Vining

Carolyn Vining

Ouuu somebody has an admirer…

3 hours ago
Anitra Favors

Anitra Favors

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH, Brody

3 hours ago
Anitra Favors

Anitra Favors

I am still waitin on my brother to comment on this topic

3 hours ago
Gregory Reynolds

Gregory Reynolds

It is true that everyman has a different thing they are looking for in the woman that is “wifey material” Upbringing has alot to do with that decision. Me personally, I look for a woman who isn’t afraid to be woman and let me be the man. Who looks at my big ideas and helps me fill in the pieces. One who pushes me to learn new things and travel to… Read More

2 hours ago
Anitra Favors

Anitra Favors

Mr. Reynolds, did you just write that? You got poetic on us.

2 hours ago
Jon Cymone

Jon Cymone

Wife Material…..For me its that woman who I just know I want to spend the rest of my life with her, she compliments me where I am strong, she turns my weaknesses into strengths, she reciprocates the love I give her. I look forward to seening her each day, her calls are the call i take no matter what I am doing. She takes is spritual and hears … Read More

about an hour ago
Ammons Ewing Smith

Ammons Ewing Smith

A woman that knows how to reach a man beyond the suggestive persuasions of her body instead reaching his heart and mind, his soul and than his body that type of woman I’de love for life. She know’s how to be humble and how and when to be assertive and oh my GOD how sexy is that.

about an hour ago
Christopher Mccreary

Christopher Mccreary

good cook,good lover,good friend, smart,and got my back

about an hour ago
David Michael Milliner

David Michael Milliner

Trust!!!

about an hour ago
Oge Ekeh

Oge Ekeh

Dudes… i’m so stealing all this info for my blog and giving credit to my girl Anitra.. i heart you all!!! =)

about an hour ago · Delete
Ammons Ewing Smith

Ammons Ewing Smith

A strong black woman that know’s how to build her man, love her man and feed her man and I’m not speaking with food but those amazing qualities that make us men stop and listen, actually pay attention to the realization of saying I need you in my life more than words can articulate as you are my reason to love…

about an hour ago
Dwayne Dubelyoo Wright

Dwayne Dubelyoo Wright

Im not an expert but from what I have seen from many of the guys I know (no matter what their dating history)
They got married when they were ready to a woman you can work with.

about an hour ago
Joshua Reid

Joshua Reid

I don’t know what wifey material to others, but for me, a woman has to have what I call the 3 B’s. Number 1: Beauty: A woman must be attractive. I don’t think the majority of the human race are married to people intellegence. You have to look decent even to get a person name nowadays. #2 Brains (not that :>) ). Spirituality, Intellect, Smart, … Read More

57 minutes ago
Calvin Debut Davis

Calvin Debut Davis

I havent read all of this quite yet..maybe about half of the replies, and I can at least echo the sentilemt of the bruhs here. I’ll say this: For some, wifey-material may be the best that that praticular man feels he can do in his walk through this life in a mate. I say the woman with the best potential as a wife will be my corresponding … Read More

56 minutes ago
Arthur Stewart

Arthur Stewart

A Help Mate as is described in scripture, a friend, royalty, holy, …..LOVE!!!!!!!!!

39 minutes ago

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