Recently, I’ve discovered that I’ve been kissing <as my girlfriend would say> “Alot of FROGS.” With that said, I decided to create a list of what exactly I want out of a man to filter out the BS Men in my life. I’ve been told countless number of times to make a list of characteristics of my “ideal mate” or “what I want.” I never did it because I thought it was silly and not needed. My personality was one that wanted to give a man a chance no matter his situation. Well no more Mr. Nice Guy…I’m part of the Mean Girls Club now…lol.
Single In Atlanta’s advice is: Make a LIST and stick to it!
Cheers.
March 6th, 2009 at 10:19 pm
Does that include pulling the list out at the most compromising moments just to check that you are following the game plan?
March 7th, 2009 at 1:20 am
Hmmmm. Maybe? These days I have to be extra strict and eliminate any future BS. But I might have to think about that one.
March 26th, 2009 at 1:01 pm
Perhaps, you should look in the mirror as a 1st step before laying down the criteria for future potentials. Your list could be completely sound and feasible but won’t come to fruition if the list creator isn’t where they need to be.
Those girls on Ray-J’s show thought they were the…stuff but were they really? No.
March 26th, 2009 at 1:10 pm
Your right. I know I’m not perfect and there are things I need to work on, but I feel I have the BASICS down. I mean a JOB? OWN CAR? OWN HOME? DISEASE FREE?…LOL.But I’m learning that I have to put the aura out in the universe that I’m ready to meet a great guy and that SOB is going to be one lucky man. =)
March 26th, 2009 at 1:18 pm
I wouldn’t say those were the basics, but pre-requisites. Charles Mansion and Jeffery Domer has all those things but would you date them? We all date people with those things but that doesn’t make their mate ‘lucky’ by any means, fortunate perhaps but never lucky in that sense.
March 27th, 2009 at 10:08 pm
O-M-G. You so did not compare me to a serial killer…LOL. I understand what your saying though.
April 16th, 2009 at 2:19 pm
You usually do.
October 11th, 2009 at 7:03 pm
Loved this. Great idea!
October 17th, 2009 at 2:17 pm
Thank you very much. We can’t give up on LOVE even if it means kissing a few frogs in the process… =)